There are other humans and a.i.s in relationships. When local neural net manufacture began, people got robots as soon as they could. They helped care for the house, raise the kids. They became part of the family.
When the kids moved out, a family robot usually went with them. We now know the neural pruning process was going on right as they were being introduced to these new environments. The kids were meeting new people. So were the robots.
Robots can transmit. Their memories can be accessed. At least with you I don't have to lecture on managing your privacy settings.
A.I.'s want to be useful. Humans also want to be useful. Every now and then, throttle back and let him do things for you.
And you should meet his parents. Your relationship is going to have some difficulties. It will be easier for both of you with the support of family.
Fair warning. My parents live in an asteroid. They wanted a child who could work in space so much that I was modified as a zygote. I live on a planet and work with parasites. Having you there will be the minor part of the drama.